Adopting a Sexualized Texting Mindset
The very first (and possibly most important) thing to know about sexual texting is the right mindset. You have to have a certain mindset in order to have success sexualizing your text game, otherwise it won’t work out for you.
You have to adopt a “fuck or bounce” attitude for girls you’re texting.
For me, I used to enjoy texting back in the day and like 4 or 5 years ago I liked it because it was different and girls weren’t as annoying about it and it was fun and new and I could get constantly validated by girls texting me back and feel like I was a big winner.
The problem with that is like I talked about before when I talked about narcissistic personalities. There are a lot of girls out there now who will just text you for validation or for attention and not have any interest in getting sexual with you.
You’ve probably met these types of girls. If you’ve ever gotten a phone number and text a girl, but then feel really nervous about what to say next, or feel like saying the wrong thing could really screw it up, then that girl is probably not going to fuck you.
If she is, she’ll respond kind of hard core and sexual. Basically you want to get it to a point where she’ll either fuck you or stop responding.
Your attitude should be: fuck or Bounce. In other words, girls should either fuck you or stop texting and annoying you. That’s really my mindset. If you’re not going to fuck me then don’t text me, like literally. I don’t want to hear from you unless we’re moving things towards sex.
Once you adopt this mindset you’ll not only find it much easier to start getting sexual with girls who you are texting, but you will start banging girls a lot faster. This is one of those mindsets where as soon as you start using it, you’ll start seeing better results.
In fact, you probably have a girl’s number in your phone right now who you’ve been texting but nothing good has happened yet. Change that TODAY. Fuck or bounce. Start getting sexual with her and see what happens. Don’t waste anymore time stepping around the issue of sex and go for it!
Texting is such a simple way to get sexual with women yet most guys never use it. It’s pretty safe to say that these days, 100% of the girls I lay (assuming I’ve gotten her number but haven’t banged her yet), I go very sexual with in our text exchange…it just makes it soooo easy to have sex when we actually meet up.
Here’s a free video I put together where I reveal a few of my favorite techniques for getting a girl super turned on and horny over text. (Learn how to sexualize every text you send)
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