“The Boyfriend Technique”
Use The ‘Boyfriending Technique’ To Get Laid Fast
By John Alexander, Author, How to Become an Alpha
I’m going to reveal an important comfort-building
technique I call Boyfriending. In a nutshell,
there’s something you can do that’s usually done ONLY
by a woman’s boyfriend.
If you do it too, it’s a way of getting under a
woman’s radar and making her comfortable enough around
you so that she’ll be receptive to sex without making
You see, in order for a typical woman to have sex with
a man, she must have feelings of comfort. It is not
enough for her to simply feel attraction for the guy.
Let’s say you meet a girl at a 5 PM happy hour. The
two of you hit it off, having a great conversation.
She’s laughing. She’s interested. You entrance her by
telling her fascinating stories about your life. The
two of you have good rapport.
Around 7:30, you get hungry and invite her to get
something to eat. Dinner goes well too. Then dinner
ends. Now what?
Around this time, a lot of guys get confused about how
to advance the interaction forward. Clearly the goal
is to get laid, but the roadmap is often muddled.
Usually the night ends with the woman saying something
like, I had great time meeting you. Call me. Bye!
Often, the need for comfort is why women like to make
guys wait before sex.
(If the guy’s lucky, it might be only three dates, but
with a lot of women, the guy can be made to wait for
Fortunately, there’s a way to shortcircuit that
barrier. I call it the Boyfriending Technique.
If you watch couples who are in close relationships,
you’ll notice an interesting phenomenon. The man and
woman are extremely comfortable touching each other,
so much so that they’ll even do seemingly gross things
like brush sleep (eye boogers) out of each other’s
It’s a behavior that’s only done by people who are
completely comfortable around each other. Certainly
when you are in a relationship where you can brush
sleep out of a woman’s eye, you’ve long since passed
the point where the two of you are comfortable having
Catch my drift? You can use this as a psychological
weapon to make the woman feel more comfortable around
In mid-conversation, tell her to hold still and close
her eyes. Pretend there’s sleep in her eye, and make
her believe that you just brushed it off.
Later, after the two of you finish eating and leave
the restaurant, again tell her to hold still. With
your finger, brush off an imaginary piece of food from
her lower lip.
The net result of the Boyfriending Technique is
nuclear. First, it sub-communicates that the two of
you are very comfortable around each other.
Second, it involves you touching her face, bringing
your heads closer together and progressing towards a
make out session.
Third, in the case of you touching her lower lip,
you’re in fact touching an erogenous zone. That’s
right… a woman’s lower lip has a high concentration
of nerve endings. Stimulating her lower lip makes her
body release sex hormones.
Make the Boyfriending Technique a part of your dating
arsenal, and you’ll find more success than ever
before. You may just be having sex within several
hours instead of having to wait several months.
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