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Approach Anxiety, Let’s Just Be Friends and Bartenders

Ask Your Wingman I am getting tons of emails about approach anxiety over the past few weeks. I am not sure if it’s because the weather is nicer and you’re finally able to go out more or if more and more of you are just reaching out to me but I think that this needs

Learning During The Inevitable Cold Streaks

Excerpt from my book Bang: Some productivity experts recommend you attach a deadline to your goal. For example: “I am going to sleep with a mother and daughter team within six months.” I don’t advise doing this because the game is so unpredictable and quirky that time goals can be discouraging during the inevitable cold

How to Become a Compelling Character that Commands the Attention of an Entire Social Scene

I want to tell you an interesting story about how I came to realize that there is an easy way to capture the attention and infatuation of those around you. It is a natural desire amongst nearly all of us to be the star of our own movie, so to speak. I know I always

Fat Columnist: Shopping for Health

I am one of those rare breed of men that thinks that any kind of shopping is fun. And I’ve always felt that way. But shopping for health food was a different story. What was healthy? How do I read the nutrition facts? What if there are no nutrition facts? As I walked through the

Too Much Kiss, Not Enough Kiss & Giving Stuff Back

Ask Your Wingman So as a follow up from last week’s post, I going to talk about re-establishing communication at your job to maximize your work experience. It’s certainly a tough thing but there are a few things you need to do. Be honest. Know what you want and be realistic. If you know that

More than friends, is it worth it?

Men and women have come a long way, relationship wise.  Back in the day it was not often heard of for men and women to be “just friends”.  Nowadays women and men can be friends without the sexual connotations.  What happens though when a man wants to be more than friends with one of his

Dating Science with Adam Lyons

OK, So the guys at PUA Training have put together a new series called Dating Science. Simply put: AFC Adam Lyons is a Mr. Wizard-ish like character who is shooting the show straight from his “Super Seduction Lab”. I can’t help but get a Nickelodeon feel when watching it. There is a young “dating scientist”

Ask Your Wingman – Missing in Action and Then Coming Through

So if you noticed, there was not an article for last week’s “Ask Your Wingman.” Although there is no excuse for not coming through, I must say that some events that happened last week totally f-ed me up and I will share some of the story with you so that you don’t make this mistake

Diary of a Drunk: Chapter 2

South Padre Island, Texas “God, I fucking love spring break”!  Who cares that I graduated college a few years ago, I still look young and I can probably out drink 90% of the pussies we’ll be partying with.  “This is going to be a great trip!”, Joe says to me; five or six years older

5 Questions with Paladin

“I am 28 years old.  I didn’t lose my virginity til I was 18.  I freaked out so much, due to my religious upbringing, that I didn’t have sex with her again.  I have lived in USA, the UK and Japan.  I fell in love for the first time in Japan.  She slept with a