Free Course: Eliminate Your Inner “Nice Guy” and Pass Girl’s Secret Tests

9 Ways to Improve Your Conversations with Women – Part III

Part 3 8.? Tell more stories (that put you in a positive light) When a bunch of guys are sitting around with each other it becomes almost a competition as to who can tell the best story.? We try to tell stories that make us appear the funniest, coolest, or most dominant guy in the

Generating Superficial Rapport: Connecting over Pop Culture

Pop culture is a social force that binds us with a collective unconscious. Advertising, movies, radio, Internet, and television constantly bombard our senses which condition our tastes, behaviors, memories, and, for some, our lives. While many people view this ?socially conditioning? as purely restrictive, they fail to recognize the possibility such a collective social unconscious

6 Fun Alternatives to the Dinner Date

How to Avoid the 7 Biggest First Date Mistakes

MISTAKE #4:? Treating a first date like a job interview Have you ever had a really important job interview?? You probably dressed really nice.? You rehearsed your answered a hundred times.? You went in to the room completely formal with your “hire me” mask on. A date is not a job interview.? So don’t treat

Being Selective, Girlfriends Having No Friends & Having Game

Ask Your Wingman We’re going straight to the mailbag this week. Next week, I’ll change gears and continue my series on life maintenance and talk about the social life, why it’s important to maintain one, even if you have a girlfriend and how to do it. If you have any questions for me, send me

Dose of Truth Serum: How to REALLY Rate Hookups

I conceived a more honest hookup scale back in 2003. We were living in a Golden Age back then: Diddy was still Puff Daddy, the Razor was the coolest phone in the world, fat chicks were required to wear Hannibal Lector masks over their pudgy faces when appearing in public. A rip-roaring era indeed, my

9 Ways To Have Better Conversations With Women – Part II

9 Skills for Better Conversations with Women (4-6) The ability to carry an interesting conversation that escalates toward the end result you’re looking for is a skill that most men have to actively learn. This is the second part of a three part series on crafting conversations that build attraction in women.  In the previous

Getting Over Women, Sports and Girls that Mess You Up

Ask Your Wingman We are going to continue to talk about dating, relationships and maintenance this week. Some of you had some interesting feedback on my responses and I love it when people get into the conversation. This week shouldn’t be any different. Let’s hit the mailbag. Hey Thomas, I’m pretty young so bear with

Great Moments in Text Message History

Examples of Texting a Girl the RIGHT WAY I meet this girl in a diner at 4 a.m. after a night of macking babe. Her: a smoking hot 20-year-old model (magazines, music videos, etc.), great personality (bubbly, good stories), been living in my neighborhood for a few months. Initial interaction in the diner was nondescript

5 questions about Savoy and Love Systems on the Tyra show

The Love Systems Tyra Banks Video Savoy and Braddock from Love Systems on the Tyra Banks Show 1.  If some random guy was  flipping channels and came across the Tyra show and could only take one piece of information away from the show…  what piece of advice would you want him to hear? That Love

9 Ways To Have Conversations That Make a Girl Fall in Love

How to Talk to Girls and Create Attraction Let’s face it; talking to a beautiful woman does not come easily to too many of us.  In fact, so much of our energy and anxiety is deplored just gathering up the courage to approach her, that by the time the conversation begins we’re burnt out and